So, how does an introvert crash land into the social scene of Panama within a month? First, let me say for those who know me, I may not seem like an introvert, but I was for many years, so let me walk you through my unintentional masterclass in ‘Friend-making for the Socially Reluctant’.
Accidental Extrovert
Spoiler alert: I didn’t morph into a social butterfly overnight. I’m more of a “hide in my cocoon and hope someone notices me” type. But Panama had other plans. Suddenly, I find myself in two pickleball groups (yes, pickleball, the sport that’s like tennis, but for people who thought tennis was just too much running). Then, bam! Invited to a potluck, two luncheons, girls’ night out, and not one, but two live music shindigs. I even had people over at my place willingly!
Why Panama? Because Beaches!
Decision making? Easy peasy. Well, except for deciding what to eat for dinner. Panama was a no-brainer – proximity to the U.S., economy as stable as my love for beachside living, and folks here are friendlier than a shih tzu puppy. Plus, the cost of living? Let’s just say my bank account is doing happy dances!
House Hunting or Condo Cuddling?
“I eyed Playa Coronado and Nueva Gorgona online with the intensity of a cat stalking a laser dot – obsessively, relentlessly, and with a few playful pounces at the screen. The lure? Condo life, my friends. Imagine living without the horror of unexpected home repairs, no lawns screaming for a trim every weekend, just the blissful simplicity of me, a few cherished belongings, and a lease that doesn’t read like a Shakespearean tragedy. These condos weren’t just any condos. They were the crème de la crème, the playgrounds of Panama City’s affluent, seeking refuge from their bustling city lives. Picture this: Luxurious retreats nestled along pristine beaches, where the wealthy once sipped cocktails and watched sunsets. And now, here I was, looking for a slice of paradise to call my own. The idea was as tantalizing as the ocean breeze itself. Fancy? It’s more like a dream stepping into reality, with a side of ocean views and tropical vibes. Living here felt less like a housing choice and more like stepping into a permanent vacation, where every day promised a blend of relaxation and high-life living.”
YouTube University & Social Media Sleuthing: My Digital Compass for Panama Living
Turns out, YouTube’s universe extends far beyond adorable cat antics and laughable DIY fails. It became my unexpected haven, where expat vloggers, from retired adventurers to digital nomads, emerged as my virtual lifelines. Their candid vlogs transformed into my go-to source of insider tips and tales about life in Panama, serving up information goldmines. Each video delved into everything from navigating the maze of visa applications to managing finances in a foreign economy. These seasoned expats also covered local customs, must-visit spots, and the little-known quirks of Panamanian life that escape the pages of guidebooks. With every click, I gained invaluable insights, turning YouTube into a personal guide available 24/7, transforming my anxious queries into confident plans.
Adding to this digital wisdom, my relocation coach, a true guardian angel in practical wisdom’s guise, nudged me toward the bustling world of Facebook expat groups. Who knew Facebook, often relegated to the realm of high school nostalgia and crush stalking, could be an expatriate’s treasure trove? These groups were like secret societies, brimming with insights, advice, and personal stories from those who had already walked the path I was just starting on. From the best local eats to navigating Panama’s public transport, these platforms buzzed with lively discussions, cultural nuances, local service recommendations, and alerts about community events. It was like stumbling into a gold mine of expat wisdom. These groups became my compass in this new land, offering real-time answers to bewildering questions and connecting me with potential friends – once strangers, now united by our shared journey of adventure and new beginnings.
Newsletters and Ocean Views
I signed up for more “for sale or rent” newsletters than I care to admit. My mission? A condo with an ocean view so close I could wake up to the sound of waves and the taste of salt. And in Panama, beaches are like opinions – everyone’s got access to them.
The Pickleball Plot
Pickleball groups popped up on Facebook and WhatsApp faster than you can say “newbie in town.” I was no Serena Williams, but I could hold my own. Plugging into these groups meant less homesickness and more high-fives. Every game was an opportunity to meet new faces, exchange stories, and forge friendships. The camaraderie was palpable, with each match bringing a sense of community that transcended language and cultural barriers. In the midst of laughter and playful competition, I found myself embraced by a diverse group of expats and locals alike, all united by our love for the game.
So, there you have it. I’ve gone from a Hulu-loving hermit to Panama’s newest socialite, all thanks to a little game with a funny name and a whole lot of accidental courage. The pickleball court became my social hub, a place where I could network, unwind, and feel a sense of belonging in my new home. I never imagined that chasing a plastic ball across a court could open so many doors and lead to such rich experiences. It’s fascinating how a simple sport can have such a profound impact on one’s social life, transforming my time in Panama into an adventure filled with laughter, connection, and unexpected joy.
Stay tuned for my next escapade: “Discovering Panama: From Dreams to Tropical Possibilities!”
Kimberly Kelley 